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Eleanor Johnstone's avatar

I am so glad you were able to be home with family and wonderful traditions :) Thank you for sharing that, and I hope that the good spirits continue this week and through the New Year celebrations!

This prompt is such fertile ground, because food is a huge part of how my family experiences the holidays - and really, many moments in time. Unfortunately I've missed out on a lot of those cues this year due to a covid quarantine, BUT, Zooming into the family Christmas Eve dinner I learned about a really touching coincidence that had taken place at my mother's dinner table. I wrote this prompt response from the perspective of our family friend/relative Rocky, a jazz musician in his '80s who now lives in Reno and wears the best desert-cowboy-rock outfits I've seen.

It’s Christmas Eve 2021, and I am in Santa Barbara with dear friends of my wife. We call them family, actually. The group’s a little small this year, actually, with one of the family working in Colorado and another quarantined in LA with the COVID. But my wife’s friend, Heather, she’s this fabulous cook, fabulous woman, my god, and just the most wonderful host, so we’re sitting down to dinner and they’re pouring the wine and bringing out a salad and I’m handed this plate of pasta with a creamy red sauce and heaps of seafood. You know, scallops and shrimp and mussels. And everything just, stops, for me. I’m back in Detroit, 1940s, I'm a kid, and my mother, she was an Italian immigrant you know, she’s serving up the Christmas Eve dinner of pasta with fish and sauce and it’s the most delicious special kind of meal you can have on a night like that. Not to mention she was quite the cook! My god. But you know I left home when I was young, was on the road a lot as a musician, and she passed away kinda young, actually. I haven’t had a Christmas Eve dinner of pasta and fish in probably 60 years but as a kid, it was the only dinner on Christmas Eve, it was special. And now here’s this plate, in Santa Barbara, California, after all that time, just taking me back all that way.

You know my wife, she has the cancer, she’s doing well but it’s been a tough year so this trip, this Christmas, was really special. Heather always makes my wife’s mother’s gingerbread cookies so that was real special, but she didn’t know about my mother’s dish or how I grew up in that way, I mean I don’t even think I’ve mentioned it to my wife, she’s no cook and I only cook a little and haven’t even thought of that meal in I don’t know how long. My god, it was just something, getting that plate on that night.

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Dana OHara Smith's avatar

So glad to hear you were able to go home and spend precious time with family. I have been thinking of you often during the holidays and sending love. Thank you for posting a prompt from Annie Campbell, she’s amazing! What a gift. Thank you for all you do Suleika.

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