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Gérard Mclean's avatar

Now I worry about the rosemary bush on my front porch that I vigorously brush through with my hands when I come back from walking my dog. Does it see me coming? Does it scream in terror at being assaulted or squeal with joy at seeing me, knowing I’ll give it attention? Is the scent given in gratitude or released in defense? Does it have a name? Is it insulted I don’t know it or never asked? It is ok that I call the plant an “it?” I feel like a colonizer doing that. I have so many questions I hadn’t had before reading this. And nobody to ask.

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Mary McKnight's avatar

Hello Aloe...you started out life, as a cutting, a baby and I brought you into my Pre-K classroom where you were surrounded by the laughter, the innocence, the growth of my caring community of learners. Every summer, I would take you home, the last item I would remove after packing up my classroom for the year. I would place you outside, first in the shade to acclimate and then in the sun to flourish. By summer's end each year, you had grown new babies, turned the deepest green and rewarded me and my new group of students with your lushness under the glare of the classroom fluorescent lights. But then, came the gloaming...the moment when my daughter was so ill, I had to retire early. And I have neglected you since...I have you on my window sill, but I look at you and see the deep sadness, the overwhelming hole that leaving my little students six years ago now, left. I water you, when I remember, and you haven't been outside in six summers. I'm so sorry. I'm so deeply sorry. I took my sadness out on you, while all the while claiming to be such a caring, kind human. Today, I will attend to you, stroke your dense leaves, water you deeply, and when Spring comes, separate the parts that need more room of their own. And when Summer comes, I will bring you outside, first in the shade to acclimate, and then to the sun to flourish. As I write this, I realize I have neglected myself this past five going on 6 years....and I vow to treat us with what we both used to thrive on-the laughter of children, attention, admiration, change of venue, renewal and hope. Thank you, Aloe.

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